Colder Weather

The time has come… the warm weather is gone and fall is officially in full swing. I personally HATE the colder weather, however, Mason is a big fan of it. He loves being outside in the cooler weather and laying out on our patio. Which means he is constantly wanting to go outside.

The hardest part of being a dog mom in the colder weather is you constantly have to layer up to go outside. Extra sweat shirts, sweat pants, socks, warm shoes, jackets, gloves, scarves, hats, etc. It is exhausting honestly, but it is a must because I hate being cold.  However, one thing that makes this process a little easier and less time consuming is to have my “dog walking clothes” set out for the week and kept by the door either hanging up with the dog leashes and poop bags or in this cute little basket I have by the door.

This way I am not running up and down stairs and constantly searching for the items I want to wear to walk Mason and I am keeping them organized. Mason is not very patient waiting on me, so anything that streamlines the process of getting out the door, I know, is much appreciated by him.

Dog Mom Tip #24: Remember, your dog gets stress out too. So anything you do to make their lives less stressful/easier is much appreciated by them.

Out with the old, in with the new

Wow, can you believe 2017 is over? I definitely can’t. 2017 was full of lots of love and laughter, but it also came with its share of pain and heartache. Of course I know life can never be perfect, but it doesn’t keep the painful things that happen from still hurting.

This past year I would say the most painful experiences have been losing a few friendships that I thought would be life long. I thought these were people who would stand beside me no matter what happened in life. However, they proved to be the opposite. They abandoned me when I needed them most. Which really really hurt and it still does honestly.

However, through losing these friends, I gained life experiences. I have definitely been guilty of being “too nice” to people. And after this, I found out I don’t have to be nice to everyone. I found out how confident and strong I can be. How I can stand up for what I believe in and how I am not going to let people walk all over me.

Even though losing these close friendships was devastating, in the big scheme of things, I don’t think they were ever truly friends anyways. Here is to a New Year and fresh start❣

Dog Mom Tip # 17: Always cherish those who are your true friends, including your pup.

Better late than never…

Oh how the difference of a year makes…. I think back to this time last year. I was living in Florida away from all of my family and friends and working a job I hated. I was crying almost every day wondering why it was so hard to be happy. I have never been so miserable in my life. Finally, I was able to snap out of my misery long enough to do something about it. I quite the job I hated, got of a negative relationship and moved back home to Kentucky.

Fast forward to now… I have a career I truly enjoy and am passionate about, someone who makes me feel so loved and appreciated and I am closer to all of my family and friends than ever. It is seriously crazy to think back to this time last year and how I felt. I had gotten so down on myself, I had literally lost all of my self-love and confidence.

It wasn’t easy to get out of this rut, however I made it! I made myself me again. I feel better now than I have in years. And, honestly, all I had to do was change my mind set. I had to think positive and reassure myself that I could do it, I could be happy again.

When people use to tell me that all you need to do is think positive, I thought they were crazy. However, I can tell you from this firsthand experience that changing your mindset really does change your whole outlook on life. Everyone deserves happiness, and I am hoping by sharing this experience even if you are in one of your darkest days this lets you know there is a way out.

Dog mom tip #14: Never give up on finding your happiness.

Puppy Love

This one is going to get a little personal, and it is hard for me to admit this, but I have always been scared of being alone. I am the type of person who has always liked being in a relationship and having someone to share my secrets and desires with. But that obviously hasn’t worked out for me yet lol

Everything is always great in the beginning of relationships, you see the fireworks and feel the butterflies. However, they never seem to last… for me at least. Something always seems to be discovered that ends up being a deal breaker or the feeling just simply fades away. I am to the point where I am questioning if I even know what real “love” is. I have been involved in a few different relationships where I thought the guy was the “one” and then it just ended in heart break. So how do you really know someone is the “one”?

I am so ready to find the answer to that question, but I honestly don’t even know where to begin. Everyone always says you will just know when you find the right person, but I honestly haven’t found that to be true. I think I worry and question things too much maybe?  I know you can’t rush falling in love and the timing has to be right. But maybe I need to just go with the flow and trust my heart… which is obviously easier said than done.

Luckily, I do have one true love who fills these voids I long for from a relationship and partner… My Mason. I know he will always love me unconditionally and I can do no wrong in his big brown eyes. One day I can only hope I will find a partner who looks at me the same way as Mason does.

 

 

Dog Mom Hack #6: Never stop searching for the kind of pure love you receive from your pup… I promise it does exist ♥

My Favorite Kind of Kisses

The day I adopted Mason, my plott hound, my life changed forever. I know it may sound crazy to some people, but we developed a bond stronger than I have ever had with anyone. It is one we did not form with words, and maybe that is why it is so pure. I know when I look into his eyes he knows exactly how I am feeling.

Lately, I haven’t been the happiest person. I haven’t smiled or laughed or wanted to play with him like normal. That doesn’t matter to him though. He still wags his tail and jumps up smiling every single time I walk in the room. He is here for me no matter what I do without judgement.

In today’s world, it is hard not to be judged for everything you do. It’s hard to find even find one person who doesn’t judge you and I am lucky enough to have found that in Mason. He listen’s to me complain about the dumbest things, let’s me talk out my  feelings when I don’t know what to do and licks away my tears when I cry (now who else would do that ha!).

Mason is truly the one who keeps me going when I don’t think I can anymore. His wagging tail and wet kisses gives me reason smile even on my darkest days.

"The best therapist has fur and four legs." - unknown
“The best therapist has fur and four legs.” – unknown

We all deserve someone as wonderful as Mason to lick away our tears and I hope you all are lucky enough to find that person like I have.

Dog Mom Hack #2: ALWAYS embrace a kiss. Even when it is a slobbery, wet one.

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